...rather than admitting to being a comedian!

Stephen K Amos has revealed that he didn’t tell his parents when he first started doing comedy – but instead explained his nighttime absences by pretending he had a minicab-driving job.

And even when he did come clean, they did not see him perform live until he took his tour show to the 3,500-seat Hammersmith Apollo in London.

‘When I first started doing comedy, I didn't tell my parents, good heavens no,’ he told journalist and food critic Jimi Famurewa on his new podcast Where’s Home Really?

‘I used to tell them I was a minicab driver, because I was out all hours of the day. When I started getting sort of regular paid work, my dad would still, when I used to visit them, have job applications from the council – "Have you thought of this?"’

And speaking of the Hammersmith Apollo gig, he said: My parents were flying in from Nigeria that day. I got them seats, got them picked up at the airport, sat in the stalls, and I put on like a big after-show party thing with Nigerian catering. I was so overwhelmed.

‘I didn't change my routine. I did all the stuff I do, talking about them, and at the end I went, "Can I just tell you ladies and gentlemen, my parents have arrived just in time, and this is the first time they've ever seen me live." The crowd went mental. My mum stood up and took a bow.’

Amos - who used to joke that representation of black acts was so scarce on British television that he’d have to wait for Lenny Henry to die to get his own show.  – also told Famurewa that after he made his first major TV performances people started trying to compare him to the older comic,

‘I was like, is that the barometer now? Are we now going to be pitted against each other. Maybe it was naive of me, but I didn't appreciate the weight of what that would represent.’

But he added that ‘weeks and days’ after his first appearances on The Royal Variety Show and Have I Got News ForYou ‘I'd be stopped in the street by predominantly black youth, saying thank you for representing.’

• Where’s Home Really? is available to listen to every Thursday on all podcast platforms.

Published: 2 Mar 2023